I am 43 yrs . old. My spouse and I have already been together for seventeen years. I just knew that we identify as male. We have long presented actually as being a female that is genderqueer. Once I explained my feelings to my cis male partner he unveiled that he’s maybe not interested in men. He will not mind or even prefers a genderqueer-presenting female, but he informs me the “physique” should be feminine. There has been exchanges that are emotional us about it. You want to remain together but my presentation that is physical has a problem. The important thing being that i wish to be physically male. He has warned me personally that he will not feel interested in me personally intimately if I become physically male. We might be just loving coparents and friends as opposed to loving coparents and partners that are sexual. We have difficulty thinking that anybody seriously might be entirely drawn to just one single physical presentation kind absent societal force.